One-night-stands are not as simple as they seem because it can be complicated to establish them. What you text online and what you will say to the girl the next day matter very much. So here are eight tips that will help you to spend a perfect night together!
Women decide if you will get laid with her or not by looking at what are you wearing and listening to what you are saying. So the five-old-sweater and same old black pants are not the things you should wear. The same goes for the face of a Grumpy Cat you usually make at work. Nah, she needs your attention and charm. Show some genuine interest to what she says, not only to her body. Who knows, maybe you will end up in long-term casual relationships?
When you meet, don’t go straight away to bed, find out a little bit about your partner instead. No, you don’t need to exchange your childhood traumas, but 30 minutes of casual convo won’t hurt. You can ask if she ever practiced Shibari, what is her fantasy, and how does she imagine sex between you two. It will help you to get in the naughty mood and feel fantastic. And, by the way, maybe you will become friends, not only sex partners, who knows? Sexual relationships combined with friendship are always even more fun. And talking about favorite movies or art will get you in the mood.
Treat your partner with respect and sympathy. Remember that you are here for fun, so she is. She is not a prostitute, but a person who wants to have and deliver pleasure like you. Turn the random hookup into a wonderful date, make it one-night-fairytale. After you ended with each other, show respect too. Treat your partner like you want her to treat you. And please, never judge her for this night.
Men who go for a hookup usually think they are the ones who deserve to get some pleasure from the night. But it’s wrong since you two are here, sharing the same bed. If you want to ignore the other’s needs and reactions, have sex with your hand. Otherwise, pay attention to the woman with you and try to make this evening best for her.
If she likes to be with you, you will get double pleasure. Find out some of her fantasies, and maybe you will be the one who makes them happen. It will be perfect if your fantasies will be the same or complementary to each other. Make this night pleasant for each participant.
Don’t head out the door once you are done. Ask her if she wants to spend time together. Women prefer to spend time together after sex. Even if it’s sleeping in one bed for the night, do it and enjoy it before leaving.
Be honest with yourself about your desires and expectations. Ask her opinion in turn. Knowing what both of you expect will help to avoid disappointments. If you are looking just for one night stand, let her know.
Bring a condom or two. There is no reason not to be prepared and risk contracting an STD or having an unplanned pregnancy. Being smart is about being prepared.
If you feel the chemistry and you think there might be more, be open to the idea. Your partner may or may not feel this way but say it anyway and be ready for every response. Your risk can be worth it.
It is not that hard to get laid on sex dating sites. After reading this short manual and understanding it, you are ready for everything. Now find a chick on one of those sites and see if it works right away!
